Welcome

In each of us there is a tremendous longing for love. The love we desire is not only the euphoric "butterflies in the stomach" feeling of new romance, but also the effable consolation of being deeply connected to another human being.

Achieving the first love is often easy--romantic love rides in on a wave of impulse or attraction, kindled by moonlight, the magic of music, and the spell binding fragrance of soft summer evenings. The second "true love" is much more difficult. All too often the loves we fall into disappoint us. We want to sustain the delectable feelings, but we can't. We want to enhance and deepen bonds between us, but we don't know how.

How are we to make our dreams come true?

Even with computers, telephone love-lines, classified ads, and single clubs, finding and maintaining a solid intimate relationship seems to be an insurmountable challenge. The media has bombarded us with health issues concerning certain STDs such as AIDS. With in this web site, I will lend to you my expertise in finding and maintaining a healthy relationship.  You may purchase my book at Amazon.Com, barnes&noble.com, or order it from any major book store. You may also ask for it in your local library.  If you are unable to locate a copy, you may send $16.95 plus $1.95 for shipping & handling to Benita R. Chalmers, P.O. Box 38267, Richmond, VA 23231.